She said, " take away your mind from me and be happy with those who consider you their soul mates. Being disloyal and getting obsessed by other women, will ruin you .I think there is no one residing in this land who has great values, if they live here you do not listen to them. When people like you are finished by death every one experiences satisfaction. If you want to save yourself be a friend Sri Rama and take His shelter. If you do not do as I advise, then it may be impossible for Indra's weapon to fail,and for the time factor to be indifferent and Sri Rama will not spare you. How can one dog face the fierce tiger in the form of Sri Rama and Laxman. Where ever you try to hide you will be shot by the angry arrows of Sri Rama and you are already getting killed by the power of time."
It is a possibility that this could happen, but Sita's conviction was two fold and hence it was complete and strong, like the wheel of Sudarshana which no one could penetrate. She was loyal to her values, the value of her great upbringing, there was no chance of her compromising. She would lay down her life if her confidence was not reciprocated by Sri Rama but she would never compromise her values.
2. Live life on certain values which need never be compromised.
Is it only for convenience or is there conviction in the value of dharma?