I have often felt that our epics, Ramayana and Mahabharata have great lessons to teach us. Here are some life lessons that I have learnt from them.
Thursday, 31 December 2015
RESPONSE AND BELIEF
Wednesday, 25 November 2015
LOYALTY AND RESOURCES
She said, " take away your mind from me and be happy with those who consider you their soul mates. Being disloyal and getting obsessed by other women, will ruin you .I think there is no one residing in this land who has great values, if they live here you do not listen to them. When people like you are finished by death every one experiences satisfaction. If you want to save yourself be a friend Sri Rama and take His shelter. If you do not do as I advise, then it may be impossible for Indra's weapon to fail,and for the time factor to be indifferent and Sri Rama will not spare you. How can one dog face the fierce tiger in the form of Sri Rama and Laxman. Where ever you try to hide you will be shot by the angry arrows of Sri Rama and you are already getting killed by the power of time."
It is a possibility that this could happen, but Sita's conviction was two fold and hence it was complete and strong, like the wheel of Sudarshana which no one could penetrate. She was loyal to her values, the value of her great upbringing, there was no chance of her compromising. She would lay down her life if her confidence was not reciprocated by Sri Rama but she would never compromise her values.
2. Live life on certain values which need never be compromised.
Is it only for convenience or is there conviction in the value of dharma?
Monday, 23 November 2015
THE BEAUTY OF LIMITATION
However when we reflect upon the two it makes life meaningful and beautiful.
If we come in contact with some thing colder then too our body retracts.
Any senses when they interact with an object, if the object has greater capacity than the limited senses then the senses are jolted as if they are being electrocuted.
Either we are thrown away or dragged irresistibly towards the object. Like a wave in the ocean drags an object or throws it out of the ocean.
This limitation gives us the experience of humility but not inaction.The difference between humility and inaction is that, the former is wisdom and the latter is ignorance caused by the wrong premise of, " what can we do? we are insignificant."
Every one talked about the monkeys limitations --that the ocean was beyond their limited power. Such churning and analysis of their limited capacity and the ocean's power brought many emotions -sadness, helplessness, betrayal, a feeling of non fulfillment but not hopelessness. While churning emotions and discussing how to get there, Jambhavana realised that Hanumana had the capacity to go beyond the power of the ocean. Jambhavana approached Hanumana and made him aware of his power which was beyond the limit of the oceans, so that Hanumana could cross the ocean very easily.
Our limited capacity.
Does it makes sense?
Saturday, 21 November 2015
GOD---SUBSTANCE OR SHADOW?
The sectarian concept of god is prevalent everywhere by propaganda but the substance of God is in everything and it is for every one.
The sectarian concept of god requires history and on other hand the substance and experience of God goes beyond history.
Even when Param Brahman descends as an Avatara, people get stuck by what He does rather than the purpose behind what He does.
The historians question the action but the substance seeker experiences the purpose. Hence they see no duality between the action of an Avatara and his purpose.
Sri Krishna and Sri Rama, when they appeared defined the character, qualities and the cause of coming together with the consequences of their descent.
The historians see facts, the poets see the flow and the intellectuals see the flaw, but the substance seekers are floored by experiencing the substance of God.
God's Avatara is not for creating history rather it is to sensitize the human being of his overwhelming presence within and without.
The great teachers of dharmik traditions have summoned us to experience God by personally developing a relationship with Him.
Some one else's experience is a theory for others, hence we need to experience God.
Dharmik traditions say there are different kinds of proof for God's existence,
direct perception, hypothesis and the sabda or sruti. The highest is the sakshatkara or direct experience of God by inner science of Sadhana and grace of the very substance who we want to experience.
Therefore the Sri Krishna and Sri Rama appear to give us their essence which is beyond history.
Their appearance is not to prove their existence but to facilitate our experience.
Monday, 16 November 2015
TRAINED INDEPENDENCE AND UNTRAINED INDEPENDENCE
For eg:- being a black smith is a skill in which anyone can be trained .Similarly one can be trained to be an altar- boy. One can be trained to believe a particular concept or any religious concept. But the critics say that this kind of training could create dogmatic people like robots.
In the traditional system of schooling students were trained to be disciplined so that as they grow, they become independently thoughtful.
Training is nothing but conditioning but how do we judge which training is good? Good or bad depends upon the consequences it brings. Consequences from a personal point of view and from a society point of view.
Getting trained to be coherent in life, may be tough but the result of such training is that such a person does not depend on others for his growth .
Sri Krishna was trained by Sandipani muni in different aspects of life . Sandipani muni had to part with his student even though he would have preferred to keep Sri Krishna with him forever. Trained students become truly independent, mentally, physically and intellectually but they maintain gratitude towards their teacher in their hearts forever and this makes them dependent on their teacher.
Modernity creates conditions where a person is trained to be untrained with respect to health, food, relationships and self confidence.
Such a life style creates a great burden on the society and on the family.
Ravana created such a civilisation where he had complete control over his citizens. The citizens never objected to Ravana doing anything .This was against normal and humanistic life. The consequences of this was a colossal amount of damage; millions of families lost their life in the war of Lanka between Sri Rama and Ravana.
Reckless civilisations will perish due to negligence of dharma. Hence to be trained in becoming free of dependence on wrong things is the dharma of every person
Saturday, 14 November 2015
HERO AND LEADER
In Both the great work of Valmiki and Vyasadeva, they define the concept of leadership. In the first place the Sanskrita terminology for leadership is completely different in regards what is stands for.
The Hindi word 'neta' comes from word 'Netratva' it means Netra means eyes tva is suffix in Sanskrita it denotes of possessing, holding. Hence it is having a vision, that is a leader.
'Adhyaksya' is another word for leader which denotes one whose vision is from above or before others.
'Karnadhara' means one who has ears, meaning he hears.
Leadership is not defined as doer but visionary and listener, of course that does not mean he does not work, but he thinks I am not the doer, I am simply facilitator. Unfortunately in the modern world, leader is made into or expected of doing most impossible things, and time some such leader do promise to their irresponsible voters of doing something which is not do-able. This leads to voters being disappointed with their leader too fast. The leaders also thing they are the one who move everything every where. But this is greatest tragedy for the leader and the subjects.
Sri Krishna in Mahabharata was mover certainly but never the broker of tradition of decentralized leadership. When Jarasandha was removed, Sri Krishna did not impose His or Pandavas leadership on them rather local leader was placed. The son of Jarasandha was placed with giving some lesson in taking care of his people. This was Sri Krishna's policy.
Yudhsthira was made emperor but not the ruler of every state. Every state had its own leader who was inspiring his place and the people were inspired by their local leader.
Sri Rama after killing Vali placed Sugriva on the throne, because Sugriva was local and good person hence he was naturally respected. In one sense the Sugriva's citizen had no influence of Ayodhya, but we're grateful to Ayodhya for giving Sugriva. Rama certainly facilitated but never ruled them.
Vibhishana was made King at death of Ravana, not because he was the Yes man of Sri Rama but he was natural next leader of Lanka who was affectionate his people and his people accepted if so.
Great Chanakya speaks the same concept in his Artha sastra leader is not the one who inspires, controls, and becomes leader in every kingdom, rather the local leaders are facilitated and the national leader only facilitates and makes him grow better in his area.
Our modern leaders do seldom follow this path, they think they can be famous and influencer everywhere, but this becomes counter productive and negative. Instead becoming leader they become arrogant even if they are good and hard working.
The lessons are taught by our great incarnations how to be leaders; hear, see, facilitate and make more leaders in many areas rather simply becoming a synthetic hero like in the Bollywood movies, who do most impossible task and the un enlightened people believe? How farce! Worst the leader(hero) to believes, I am the great and no one like me.
Choose people who have the inspiration Sri Rama and Sri Krishna , shun and fear the Bollywood type heroes and their fans.